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ABOUT ME

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On Becoming...

How can you own the room, show up as the authority, have unshakeable confidence, go after the big dream, or create the relationship you want...​if you keep playing small.

If you keep shrinking? If you're not living the best version of you?​

It can be daunting, even terrifying to leave what we've known, behind. Our old stories, how we've been living, dealing with ups and downs, to become our brilliant beautiful, badass selves. I know.

After living with grief for several years after my husband passed away, I asked myself, "What is on the other side of this?" I was terrified to find out, but I found the courage—I stopped shrinking. I let my old identity go, and took a step toward becoming my future self.

What I learned was that my old identity could not come with me. And something started to shift. I emerged stronger, more confident, recognizing this inner power deep inside. And I learned that what was on the other side, was me—but a stronger, capable, certain me.

Every expansion and meaningful change in my life required this shift first:

I stopped asking: "How do I fix this?"

And started asking "Who do I need to be?" 

-New city

-New chapter

-New work

-New level of leadership

Not because I had a better plan—

but because I aligned with my future self, instead of my past identity.

When the identity changes, everything changes.

Who Am I?

Think Dorothy Parker meets Brené Brown  

My promise is to help you stop playing small, become the next version of you and show up in the world with presence and power. This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about releasing old roles, stories, and consciously stepping into an identity that actually supports the life you're building.

Are you ready to own the room?

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A Little More About Me...

  • I'm a die hard New Yorker (and yes, a theatre junkie). 

  • I love champagne. Bubbly is lovely..

  • I could spend hours soaking in the Chagall windows at The Art Institute of Chicago. 

  • Favorite icon: Audrey Hepburn. But Sondheim is god in the musical theatre world.

  • Old movies: All About Eve, Rebecca, Vertigo, Barefoot in the Park, Butterflies are Free, Dinner at Eight.  

  • Love - Paris, Tuscany, Venice

  • Favorite Quote (well, one anyway) "I will surround myself with beauty. That will be my life." - Elsie de Wolfe

 

Key Facts

  • Certified coach since 2018

  • Led a team of 20 creatives in the book industry.

  • Published author

  • Podcast guest

  • Creative Mornings host

  • Substack writer - The Sweet & Lowdown

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