Wanting is different than choosing. Wanting is first cousin to wishing. It's when you're thinking you can't really make it happen. And hoping someone gets it for you and drops it in your lap.
Choosing puts you in the drivers seat. Yes, that's a bit more daunting. But we can choose one thing today and another tomorrow. There are no mistakes. It doesn't matter if your path is straight or zig zags.
It's in the not choosing that we stay frozen. A prisoner. We must take action. Momentum is everything. Start small. Practice choosing.
I'll start you off:
I choose to be brilliant.
I choose to feel awesome no matter what.
I choose to say yes.
I choose to say no.
I choose to believe in myself.
I choose to create my life.